活在当下，并塑造未来:
一位多产的作家巴西, 保罗·科埃略, 说- “在魔术 - 和生活 - 只有当下, 现在. 你不能测量时间的方式测量两点之间的距离. “时间”不及格. 我们人类有专注于本巨大困难; 我们一直在思考，我们做了什么, 有关如何我们可以做得更好, 有关后果或我们的行动, 而为什么我们不采取行动，我们应该有.
否则我们思考未来, 关于我们将做什么明天, 我们应该采取什么预防措施, 什么危险等待着我们在转角处, 如何避免我们不想要什么，以及如何得到我们一直梦寐以求的。”真! 我们的心很少停留在本.
平时, it keeps wandering either in the past or in future. It is beneficial to think for the betterment of ourselves and our loved ones, but it is wrong to neglect the present for the sake of it because the present is that platform on which we stand and by walking through which we create the path to the future course.
There are some points which should be kept in mind for efficiently managing the present and simultaneously materializing our future dreams. The first and most important point is to decide the short term and long term goals of life. Having done so, we should adopt a logical approach towards planning our actions to achieve those goals. While planning, we should take into consideration whether the achievement of our short-term goals would contribute to the ultimate aim of life or not.
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We should ask ourselves where do we see ourselves about 10 至 15 years from now a leading what sort of alife? Do not impose any restrictions on yourself, but think about every desire an dream carefully and analyze whether your desires are matching with your actions. This means that the activities of the present should be analyzed on the basis of to what extent they could fulfill our aspirations for the future.
Give some time daily to fulfill the higher ambition (the ultimate aim). Augment your knowledge and experiences in that field and have unfailing confidence in your potentials. When you start acting on your plan, very often there would be hurdles, obstacles, setbacks, and the resulting delays and disappointments.
In order to tackle such situations, think that everything in life is temporary. Every time it rains, it stops raining. After the darkness of night, there is always the dawn of light. Nothing lasts forever. So if things are good right now, enjoy it. It won’t last forever. If things are bad, don’t worry because it won’t last forever either.
Please keep in mind, worrying and complaining won’t help at all. In this context, someone has rightly said –
“ When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but, often times, we look so long at the closed door that we don’t even see the new one which has been opened for us.’
Spending today complaining about yesterday won’t make tomorrow any brighter. Take action instead. Let your experience help improve your life. Make a change and never look back.
Be an optimist. In his autobiography titled ‘Long walk to freedom, 纳尔逊·曼德拉, says – “ I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I can’t say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s head pointed toward the sun, one’s feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.”
In conclusion, we should not lose our present for our future, but should also not be so much overwhelmed by our presence that we may be totally unaware of the future. We should live in the present keeping the ultimate aim in mind, and make realistic plans and execute them sincerely and earnestly.
Source: awgp
